Comments on: njoy Pure Wand http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/ the personal journal of nina aoki Tue, 14 Oct 2008 15:48:33 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: A Real Guide to Anal Sex and Anal Play | lazy geisha http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-5973 A Real Guide to Anal Sex and Anal Play | lazy geisha Sun, 06 Apr 2008 22:26:05 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-5973 [...] last summer after I’d finished reviewing the njoy line of sex toys, especially after reviewing the njoy Pure Plugs, I started receiving emails from people who had [...] [...] last summer after I’d finished reviewing the njoy line of sex toys, especially after reviewing the njoy Pure Plugs, I started receiving emails from people who had [...]

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-4593 nina aoki Fri, 08 Feb 2008 22:25:26 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-4593 Zola, Thanks for adding that -- yes, one of the great things about the njoy line is that their toys are truly 'bisexual' in a word in that guys can use them too. A lot of men seem to enjoy the other end of the Pure Wand (as well as the Fun Wand) for prostate play. G-Spot play is one of those things which women have to come to on our own. You can read my entry <a href="http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/25/female-ejaculation/" rel="nofollow">here</a> which explores some of those aspects, but what you have to understand about us is that our orgasms are 90% psychological and sometimes trying to "hit the spot" can lead to a lot of frustration, so, give her some time with it and maybe she'll warm up to the idea! xoxo, nina Zola,

Thanks for adding that — yes, one of the great things about the njoy line is that their toys are truly ‘bisexual’ in a word in that guys can use them too. A lot of men seem to enjoy the other end of the Pure Wand (as well as the Fun Wand) for prostate play.

G-Spot play is one of those things which women have to come to on our own. You can read my entry here which explores some of those aspects, but what you have to understand about us is that our orgasms are 90% psychological and sometimes trying to “hit the spot” can lead to a lot of frustration, so, give her some time with it and maybe she’ll warm up to the idea!

xoxo,
nina

]]> By: Zola http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-4578 Zola Fri, 08 Feb 2008 03:13:42 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-4578 I think it's worth noting that the Pure Wand is also a great toy for male P Spot play. I bought the Pure Wand thinking that it would be great for G spot play with my girlfriend, but she said that she's not ready for G Spot play right, so I started using it to play with my prostate. It is fantastic for that. It takes a while to learn how to stimulate one's prostate, and it also takes a while to figure out how best to use the wand. Once you figure out what works best for you, it will be hard not to make the wand an everyday toy. I love it and highly recommend it. I think it’s worth noting that the Pure Wand is also a great toy for male P Spot play. I bought the Pure Wand thinking that it would be great for G spot play with my girlfriend, but she said that she’s not ready for G Spot play right, so I started using it to play with my prostate. It is fantastic for that. It takes a while to learn how to stimulate one’s prostate, and it also takes a while to figure out how best to use the wand. Once you figure out what works best for you, it will be hard not to make the wand an everyday toy. I love it and highly recommend it.

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-4353 nina aoki Sat, 29 Dec 2007 03:06:55 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-4353 Rose, Thank you for your questions and for sharing your experience with me. The Pure Wand is designed to work in harmony with your body, so this sensation of feeling your PC muscles pull the toy in past them is exactly how it's supposed to work. The 1 1/2 ball then comes into contact with your G-Spot which is what you're looking for -- but this is the first time I've heard of a woman having an issue removing it. I'm assuming you're trying to take it out after having an orgasm and the associated swelling is what's making removal difficult. You may try waiting for a period until the swelling subsides, or you could try using a commercial lubricant. I'm concerned because you shouldn't be experiencing any kind of discomfort, but since you are, then perhaps this toy isn't appropriate for you, or, you could try using the smaller end, since you're petite, and see how that feels. You're not in any real danger of the toy being pulled all the way into your body. The length of the vagina shouldn't allow that, and it will hit your cervix before it gets in too deep, but perhaps you may want to consider having a gynecological exam to make sure everything is well with you. As for using the <a href="http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-stainless-steel-pure-plugs/" rel="nofollow">Pure Plug</a> vaginally, that isn't what the toy was designed for, but if you enjoy it then I say wonderful! While sex toys are wonderful additions to what we do in the bedroom with our lovers, there are no universal rules as to what works and what doesn't, meaning that every woman is different and will respond differently. I gave one of my girlfriends the Pure Wand as a gift and she thought it was useless and didn't enjoy using it at all, so everyone is different. Since you're a petite woman (so am I) then I would suggest a little experimentation to find the things which you enjoy and receive pleasure from, and stay away from the things you don't -- but try the smaller ball on the Pure Wand first and add some lube and see if that helps! I hope I answered your questions! Please feel free to contact me if you need some additional help, directions or assistance! Good luck! xoxo, nina Rose,

Thank you for your questions and for sharing your experience with me.

The Pure Wand is designed to work in harmony with your body, so this sensation of feeling your PC muscles pull the toy in past them is exactly how it’s supposed to work. The 1 1/2 ball then comes into contact with your G-Spot which is what you’re looking for — but this is the first time I’ve heard of a woman having an issue removing it. I’m assuming you’re trying to take it out after having an orgasm and the associated swelling is what’s making removal difficult. You may try waiting for a period until the swelling subsides, or you could try using a commercial lubricant.

I’m concerned because you shouldn’t be experiencing any kind of discomfort, but since you are, then perhaps this toy isn’t appropriate for you, or, you could try using the smaller end, since you’re petite, and see how that feels.

You’re not in any real danger of the toy being pulled all the way into your body. The length of the vagina shouldn’t allow that, and it will hit your cervix before it gets in too deep, but perhaps you may want to consider having a gynecological exam to make sure everything is well with you.

As for using the Pure Plug vaginally, that isn’t what the toy was designed for, but if you enjoy it then I say wonderful!

While sex toys are wonderful additions to what we do in the bedroom with our lovers, there are no universal rules as to what works and what doesn’t, meaning that every woman is different and will respond differently. I gave one of my girlfriends the Pure Wand as a gift and she thought it was useless and didn’t enjoy using it at all, so everyone is different.

Since you’re a petite woman (so am I) then I would suggest a little experimentation to find the things which you enjoy and receive pleasure from, and stay away from the things you don’t — but try the smaller ball on the Pure Wand first and add some lube and see if that helps!

I hope I answered your questions! Please feel free to contact me if you need some additional help, directions or assistance! Good luck!

xoxo,
nina

]]> By: Rose http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-4345 Rose Fri, 28 Dec 2007 15:42:33 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-4345 Any suggestions for easier removal of this item when using for G spot stimulation? I think the main challenge for me is that I am unusually small and my pc muscles are toned and grab very tightly onto this item pulling it very deeply. What do small ladies do to ease this out? Seemed like I had no control of how deep this toy was sucked in... I am fairly small to put it lightly and have played with other wieghty items and have not have that suck your insides back out or firmly holding inside response from objects. This is something new (to me and my partner) of course and adjusting to its use is required. The pure plug was firmly in place (to put it nicely) amd little pulls were not going to remove it. I shifted thinking that gravity would help but that was a big mistake and there was discomfort (Have others tried to take on another position after insertion and had this challenge) and I am uh taking a break for recovery purposes. I did end up pushing the pure wand out using muscles but the extent that I had to do that felt somewhat inadvisable. I do not normally need to lube an item such as this, but maybe that will help. I have the medium size NJOY plug. Great little item that oddly enough is wonderful for insertion in that area (as well as as anal) to wear out of course with a rope harness. I am thinking that since this does cause quite a bit of arousal that it may be pushing ever so slightly on the G spot as well.. hmmm. Is this maybe due to my smaller size? Any feedback would be appreciated. Do others on this review board have similiar experiences and a remedy or advice (eg precautions etc) for someone petite using the wand? I am thinking keeping a firmer hold on the wand to avoid it going so deep in the first place may be the answer.. hmmm. Thanks for the review and feedback! R Any suggestions for easier removal of this item when using for G spot stimulation?

I think the main challenge for me is that I am unusually small and my pc muscles are toned and grab very tightly onto this item pulling it very deeply. What do small ladies do to ease this out?

Seemed like I had no control of how deep this toy was sucked in… I am fairly small to put it lightly and have played with other wieghty items and have not have that suck your insides back out or firmly holding inside response from objects. This is something new (to me and my partner) of course and adjusting to its use is required.

The pure plug was firmly in place (to put it nicely) amd little pulls were not going to remove it. I shifted thinking that gravity would help but that was a big mistake and there was discomfort (Have others tried to take on another position after insertion and had this challenge) and I am uh taking a break for recovery purposes. I did end up pushing the pure wand out using muscles but the extent that I had to do that felt somewhat inadvisable. I do not normally need to lube an item such as this, but maybe that will help.

I have the medium size NJOY plug. Great little item that oddly enough is wonderful for insertion in that area (as well as as anal) to wear out of course with a rope harness. I am thinking that since this does cause quite a bit of arousal that it may be pushing ever so slightly on the G spot as well.. hmmm. Is this maybe due to my smaller size? Any feedback would be appreciated.

Do others on this review board have similiar experiences and a remedy or advice (eg precautions etc) for someone petite using the wand? I am thinking keeping a firmer hold on the wand to avoid it going so deep in the first place may be the answer.. hmmm.

Thanks for the review and feedback!

R

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-4268 nina aoki Tue, 11 Dec 2007 19:29:21 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-4268 Devil, Oh you're very welcome sweetheart. If you get one I hope you enjoy it! It's certainly not an everyday toy, but they're quite a bit of fun to play with! xoxo, nina Devil,

Oh you’re very welcome sweetheart. If you get one I hope you enjoy it! It’s certainly not an everyday toy, but they’re quite a bit of fun to play with!

xoxo,
nina

]]> By: Devilbluedress http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-4262 Devilbluedress Mon, 10 Dec 2007 03:27:10 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-4262 This is a great write up, about using the NJOY. I was thinking about getting one as a free toy and will need to review it afterwards. This helped me decide that I SHOULD, and to give me some direction! Thanks. This is a great write up, about using the NJOY. I was thinking about getting one as a free toy and will need to review it afterwards. This helped me decide that I SHOULD, and to give me some direction! Thanks.

]]> By: lazy geisha - » The Revolution of Sex Toys http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-3578 lazy geisha - » The Revolution of Sex Toys Wed, 12 Sep 2007 22:00:37 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-3578 [...] been an amazing revolution. Some of the most amazing products have come from companies such as njoy and LELO with wands, vibrators and plugs, and stunning glass creations from Phallix, all designed [...] [...] been an amazing revolution. Some of the most amazing products have come from companies such as njoy and LELO with wands, vibrators and plugs, and stunning glass creations from Phallix, all designed [...]

]]> By: Me So Horny, for non-appropriating Asian American Sex Blogs | Good Vibrations Blog http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-3160 Me So Horny, for non-appropriating Asian American Sex Blogs | Good Vibrations Blog Wed, 08 Aug 2007 23:13:32 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-3160 [...] and ancient traditions. She also writes pretty great reviews on sex toys such as this one about the njoy. If blogging sex toy reviews as an affiliate makes a blog pay for itself, I hope more bloggers get [...] [...] and ancient traditions. She also writes pretty great reviews on sex toys such as this one about the njoy. If blogging sex toy reviews as an affiliate makes a blog pay for itself, I hope more bloggers get [...]

]]> By: Me So Horny, for non-appropriating Asian-American Sex Blogs | Good Vibrations Blog http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-3148 Me So Horny, for non-appropriating Asian-American Sex Blogs | Good Vibrations Blog Tue, 07 Aug 2007 20:07:22 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-3148 [...] and ancient traditions. She also writes pretty great reviews on sex toys such as this one about the njoy. If blogging sex toy reviews as an affiliate makes a blog pay for itself, I hope more bloggers get [...] [...] and ancient traditions. She also writes pretty great reviews on sex toys such as this one about the njoy. If blogging sex toy reviews as an affiliate makes a blog pay for itself, I hope more bloggers get [...]

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-2882 nina aoki Mon, 02 Jul 2007 15:04:54 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-2882 Imperfectly, Thanks sweetie. I'm glad you found my review helpful! xoxo, nina Imperfectly,

Thanks sweetie. I’m glad you found my review helpful!

xoxo,
nina

]]> By: Imperfectly http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-2874 Imperfectly Fri, 29 Jun 2007 22:15:31 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-2874 Thank you, your review was THE reason I went out and bought this last weekend from Minneapolis' Smitten Kitten. The way you described your experience I HAD to have it and I am so glad I now do!! I also recommend the Lelo Nea vibe available at Smitten Kitten as well. Thank you, your review was THE reason I went out and bought this last weekend from Minneapolis’ Smitten Kitten. The way you described your experience I HAD to have it and I am so glad I now do!!

I also recommend the Lelo Nea vibe available at Smitten Kitten as well.

]]> By: lazy geisha - » the njoy fun wand http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-2692 lazy geisha - » the njoy fun wand Fri, 15 Jun 2007 06:11:12 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-2692 [...] products well designed and thought out, they’re an absolute delight to play with. After my recent review of the njoy Pure Wand, I was simply overjoyed to try the Fun Wand and see for myself if njoy could blow my mind again. I [...] [...] products well designed and thought out, they’re an absolute delight to play with. After my recent review of the njoy Pure Wand, I was simply overjoyed to try the Fun Wand and see for myself if njoy could blow my mind again. I [...]

]]> By: ben http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-1190 ben Wed, 18 Apr 2007 01:53:12 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-1190 I ordered one today... now to see if I can wait a month to give it to her! Mmm... THANKS for an awesome review, you totally convinced me to give it a shot. And after our success with the eroscillator (we've had one for something like 15 years), I'm not afraid to spend a little cash on something good. I ordered one today… now to see if I can wait a month to give it to her! Mmm…

THANKS for an awesome review, you totally convinced me to give it a shot. And after our success with the eroscillator (we’ve had one for something like 15 years), I’m not afraid to spend a little cash on something good.

]]> By: nina http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-1165 nina Tue, 17 Apr 2007 00:16:32 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-1165 Hi ben! Thank you so much for such a kind compliment! Oh I think an njoy pure wand would be a <i>perfect</i> 20 yr. anniversary gift! You should check out my piece on <a href="http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/25/female-ejaculation/" rel="nofollow">female ejaculation</a> too! She's going to be a happy girl! :wink: Thanks so much for sharing that with me! xoxo, nina Hi ben!

Thank you so much for such a kind compliment!

Oh I think an njoy pure wand would be a perfect 20 yr. anniversary gift! You should check out my piece on female ejaculation too! She’s going to be a happy girl! :wink:

Thanks so much for sharing that with me!

xoxo,
nina

]]> By: ben http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-1156 ben Mon, 16 Apr 2007 20:28:10 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-1156 Such an awesome piece of writing! I've had the Njoy on my wish list, but it's just been bumped to the top. My wife and I will be celebrating our 20 year anniversary soon and this looks like a perfect gift. (Isn't 20 years the "G-spot Anniversary?" Well, I think it is now.) Such an awesome piece of writing!

I’ve had the Njoy on my wish list, but it’s just been bumped to the top. My wife and I will be celebrating our 20 year anniversary soon and this looks like a perfect gift. (Isn’t 20 years the “G-spot Anniversary?” Well, I think it is now.)

]]> By: nina http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-1058 nina Tue, 10 Apr 2007 19:27:47 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-1058 sdr, Thanks for sharing your thoughts with me! I hope you're happy with your purchase! I think you both will enjoy this toy! xoxo, nina sdr,

Thanks for sharing your thoughts with me! I hope you’re happy with your purchase! I think you both will enjoy this toy!

xoxo,
nina

]]> By: sdr http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-1056 sdr Tue, 10 Apr 2007 08:57:30 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/04/njoy-pure-wand/#comment-1056 Nina, Thank you for taking the time to write about your experience with the njoy Pure Wand. This item had caught my eye while I was searching for a G-Spot "toy" to enhance the love-play with my girlfriend. Reading your review convinced me to order one - I just did. My lady is already highly orgasmic but has yet to experience a "female ejaculation." Perhaps the Pure Wand might be the key that unleashes that orgasmic nectar? In any event, it certainly looks like something we will both enjoy experimenting with. Oh yes! I fully intend to let her give me a P-Spot massage as well. I'll keep you posted. Thanks again! Nina,
Thank you for taking the time to write about your experience with the njoy Pure Wand. This item had caught my eye while I was searching for a G-Spot “toy” to enhance the love-play with my girlfriend. Reading your review convinced me to order one - I just did.

My lady is already highly orgasmic but has yet to experience a “female ejaculation.” Perhaps the Pure Wand might be the key that unleashes that orgasmic nectar?

In any event, it certainly looks like something we will both enjoy experimenting with. Oh yes! I fully intend to let her give me a P-Spot massage as well. I’ll keep you posted.

Thanks again!

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