Remembering Yesterday


Japanese Garden

It’s been a busier than usual week for me with school being out and with me wearing my “mom hat” and fulfilling my role as my son’s caretaker in chief on a full time basis. As I mentioned Sunday, I’d planned most of my schedule this week around being available to drop everything and give rides on a moments notice, run to the store with little or no warning because we ran out of something essential, iron a shirt like right now because his friends are waiting outside for him and they’re going to miss the start of the movie, cook a meal because even tho he had forty dollars in his wallet when he left the house it still wasn’t enough to get anything to eat, and more or less forgo anything that I needed to get done for myself.


I have to give a word of respect to women who do make that choice to be full time stay at home mothers because it’s a lot of work, and while I’m pretty close to that because I do most of my work from home, I’ve been able to balance having a career and being a mother pretty well all these years, but even that has been no small feat. Something I didn’t consider as I was planning my weekly schedule and deciding which projects I could work on and which ones would get pushed to next week when the kids go back to school, was that my son is older now, and while he still needs me, he’s achieved a level of independence which has actually left me with more free time on my hands this week than I’d originally planned on having.

As a family we’ve always had an interest in photography, and with digital cameras and DV camcorders becoming more popular in recent years, we’ve managed to accumulate a mishigash of prints, slides, negatives, videotape, mini-dv tape, and digital pictures; all of it spread across our house in a mix of albums, binders, shoe boxes, and spread across our home network consisting of multiple hard drives in multiple computers, and none of it is organized.

I’ve been looking at software alternatives for a while now trying to decide how to best catalog and organize all of the various media we’ve collected, and I’m liking Adobe’s new package Lightroom. I’ve used Picasa and a couple of other free photo organizing packages but none of them really seemed to do the trick for me. We’ve got a lot of gear to consider too, and we need to figure out what kind of format we’re going to go with in the future. (Do other families have these same dilemma or is this just a symptom of my internal geekiness?) :w00t:

My husband hates digital cameras, or at least he hasn’t found one he’s liked so far that was affordable, but we’re looking at the Canon EOS to replace his aging AE-1, and he really likes the look of real film, especially black and white. We’ve got a good quality scanner that we use to transfer prints to a digital format so we can email pictures we shoot to family and friends, and we both know Photoshop pretty well which we use for editing and formatting, and I know I’m being completely anal retentive in wanting to organize all of our pictures, but since I wound up having more free time this week, it seemed like a good personal project to deal with.

As I started going thru old albums and boxes of pictures, I dragged out our old Kodak slide projector and set it up in my office and went thru several trays of slides, then I went thru old albums finding baby pictures, pictures of different places we’ve lived or vacationed. Some pictures my husband took when he was touring, and some I took when I was single; all of them bringing back memories of the past, some good and some bad, but still, they’re my memories.

I have a small FujiFilm digital camera that I use to take snapshots, but my eye isn’t the best for composition. That’s really been my husband’s talent, but I’ve been trying to merge all of these things together and I found some things that I liked that I’d like to share here.

A lot of the pictures I’ve been looking at have reminded me of things I used to do, like skiing or kayaking. This winter has sucked too with hardly any snow whatsoever. I used to ski at Blue Hills just outside Boston all the time, and I even found some pictures of that, tho they’re not very good, and I found some pictures of when we lived in Florida where I first learned to kayak. Some of the pictures I found were of Christmas 2005 when my husband and I first started talking about reconciling and I remembered that he asked if he could come home while we were visiting the Morikami Japanese Gardens.

All little things, but important things, and important to remember that life moves by you with blistering speed, so maybe you should remember to take a picture every now and again. I’m glad I did.

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nina

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Juno Beach Pier

Morikami Crane

Morikami Wish Fountain

Morikami Zen

Backyard

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Hi Nina: I always like to be the first to comment.I don’t know why.
You are so kind to share your everyday life with us, your true fans. I also have scads of slides, photos, and over two hundred Hi8 video films. I do enjoy working, editing, and sharing with my friends, but wish I could find a system, that a pea sized brain like myself to figure out. The Garden pics are very secial to you ,I know. It is stil bitter cold here, but the sun is shining, the wind is blowing and we are alive and well. Best regards to you all.
love
richard

What beautiful pictures! I can relate to the urge to organize pictures better. Sounds like an ambitious, but hopefully fun, project. Nothing quite like taking that walk down memory lane…

~sleive

much respect to you! i am a stay at home mom also- i haven’t worked since march 1st of last year, two days before my son was born. it is cool, amazing, tons of work, and so challenging on many levels, but so worth it. my husband is so wonderful, so incredibly supportive, and so strong- it’s been a really tough year, but we’ve grown and learned so much. though we have pushed ourselves to limits we never would have pushed before, our son’s bond with us is forever and solid. worth every bit of struggle.
cool craziness- i live in palm beach gardens…we go to juno/ jupiter beach all the time… best beach in south florida. your pictures of morikami remind me that husband and i have been meaning to go for a few years… your pics are SO beautiful!

Yea Canon & Nikon seem to run neck & neck to the finish line. They both have models that get great reviews. Personally, I just have a p&s digital. As for Lightroom, I dunno. You may also want to consider Adobe Elements, does tons of stuff + seems like a good way to organize images as well. If you have an older version of PS like I do, the newer ones have much improved their organizing tasks.

And you can test drive any of Adobes products for 30 days. Lightroom is having special Intro pricing. I can just see Nina reaching for the charge card now, did you say Sale?

As for the slides, you may want to get a slide scanner. Or, have them scanned. Tons of great memories await in those slide boxes. I have ‘em too.

My mom was a stay at home mom. Cookin’, cleanin’, shoppin’ & all that stuff. Geesh. Just the way it was back in the day. Now at 90+ its our turn to take care of her.

Hey Ms Nina,
Just popped in to say hello! I like the pretty pics too! I can’t say that us as a family go through that I’m the designated “Geek” of this bunch therefore Daddy & the babies depend on me to keep them up to date with the latest tech & so on! Love ya much
Neaya

Hello Richard!

Oh you’re so sweet, thank you! Well I’ve been playing with a couple of software platforms to organize my pictures, and Jeff and I are going to go thru everything this week and maybe we’ll scan some more of his photos into a digital format. He does all of his video editing in Avid DS, but we have so many pictures that we really need to start thinking about a catalog.

Thanks sweetie!

xoxo,
nina

Hi sleive!

Thank you! Yeah, I really need to add some organization to all of our pictures. I’m thinking that I might also buy a USB 2.0 external hard drive as an archive device too. That way the pictures will all be safe and it won’t take up resources for indexing. Then again, I am planning on buying a new Mac within six months and iPhoto should do exactly what I want anyway.

xoxo,
nina

Hello Tasha!

Well, I work from home, so technically I’m a stay at home mom, because I’m at home! But, we’ve worked out a pretty good system where I take a break from work around three when school gets out, and deal with whatever I have to deal with, then I go back to work around 4 or so and usually work until 7 or so. This of course is all subject to change depending on whether or not I have a conf call to deal with.

I give stay at home moms a lot of credit, because it’s a lot of work! I’m just lucky that my son is older and I have the house all to myself from around 7:30 in the morning until three in the afternoon! Which is why I’m usually not available during those times.

Oh wow! I know where all of those places are! When we lived in Florida we lived in Juno Beach but we were only there for about six months. We had a nice condo on the ocean side of the intercoastal. I have to confess tho, I really missed New England and wanted to come home.

You should absolutely go to the Morikami! It’s so beautiful there! I also love the turtle park at Juno Beach! So cool! :wink:

Thanks sweetie!

xoxo,
nina

kj,

Well both of those companies make great bodies. My husband could talk your ear off on the subject of cameras!

I haven’t downloaded Lightroom yet, but I did take your advice and I played around with Elements last night a bit. I have version 2.0 which is like PS-Lite, but I use CS2 for everything else. I’ll have to see if those will do what I want them to.

I’ll have to look into a slide scanner and see if that might work. I know you can create prints from slides, so we might just pick out the best and go that route.

A lot of women are making the choice to stay home and raise families these days. There was a time when the rallying cry was about “having it all” and the real truth to that is that you can’t. None of us can have it all. There are always trade offs, and you have to make the best choices that are going to make you happy in the long run.

Oh and yes, I’m buying a new Mac within six months anyway, and I think iPhoto is going to do what I want.

Thanks sweetie!

xoxo,
nina

Hey there Ms. Neaya!

:wink: Oh our whole family are a bunch of geeks! Including my son! We have more technology in our home, and it’s technology that gets used too! We’re all very plugged in!

Want to hear something funny? I can be down in my office and my husband can be in the other room or upstairs with his laptop and my son is in his bedroom on his laptop and we’ll send each other instant messages!

Now THAT is geeky! :w00t:

But it’s fun, and it’s who we are, and we’re very happy, and that’s what counts!

xoxo,
nina

Nina: Was looking for Remittance Girl,and she is off to Thailand to meet Lisabet Sarai. I went to Lisabet’s site. Very nice, like your own, hmmmmmmmmmm one outstanding writer of erotica always seems to lead from one to another. Have a wonderful geeky day. love ya Richard

Those pictures are great.. I love the phrase “Mom hat” my beautiful wife says that all of the time. Your blog is awesome.. keep up the great work.

Richard,

Oh yes, she’s lovely! I’ll have to spend some time there checking her out!

Awww, you’re very sweet, thank you!

xoxo,
nina

HIM,

Thank you so much! I’m glad you like the way things are coming together here! I sincerely appreciate the kind words!

xoxo,
nina

You are right it does get easy as the children get older. My three kids are 7,6, and 4. It just seems that I find myself with more clothes to wash.:)

It’s a funny thing to slow down enough to take a picture or to stop and smell a flower. Even my 4 yr. old knows to slow down and to smell a flower. Even if it was a weed. So thank you for reminding me again. With all that is going on with my family this week it seems that I’m reminded to slow down everyday, and everything will turn out to be just fine. Oh now I’m rambling on.

The pics are beautiful.

HugKissSmile
~Angela

Angela,

Easier in one regard, but wow, does it get way more complicated! lol!

I think we all need to remember to take some time to slow down, smell a flower, enjoy a sunset, kiss our children, take a picture. Life moves way too fast and is way too short.

And don’t worry sweetie, you can always ramble here! :wink:

Thanks! I’m glad you liked the pictures!

xoxo,
nina

Hello Nina,
Got a busy day. Doctors and lab tests. Routine, but time consuming. I’ll be sending you another package. Lovely pictures. More later… Tomorrow.

Love,
Norman

Hi norman!

Oh I hope you’re feeling okay! I did get your email but I haven’t had a chance to respond yet, but thank you! I’ll look forward to that!

xoxo,
nina

Wowsers, you’re looking at a pretty trick D-SLR. I’m sure you’ll make the most of it. :)

Nina,

Thanks for those pictures, they’re gorgeous! I haven’t been to a beach in a while, I should go sometime. Your backyard is beautiful too!

Love,
Gary

Kyma,

I know! It’s a pretty amazing camera! Maybe for Father’s Day. We haven’t decided or bought one yet.

xoxo,
nina

Gary,

Thank you sweetheart! I’m glad you liked them! I love my green space! And yes, you should go to the beach more often, especially where you live!

xoxo,
nina

my father made books for my sister and i after he scanned in and organized every photo my parents ever took.

and my mom used to fix cameras so you have to imagine there are a lot

BadInfluenceGirl,

Oh wow! That sounds so cool! You know, scrap-booking has become so popular in recent years, and I’ve been checking out the tools available on the Mac to do those kinds of things. You can create these complete digital books and then have them professionally printed. That would be so cool!

Thanks sweetie!

xoxo,
nina

Hi Nina,
Beautiful images you have there.
I was also like you, when it came to photography I always stuck with film, specially black and white. Until I bought my first DSLR.
What I loved about it is the instant gratification you get with it. Although I still miss developing my film and going to the dark room. Now, I can save that extra time to take more pictures.

Sasha,

Thank you! Those are some of my favorites that I’ve taken myself. My husband is really the one with the photographic eye, and he absolutely loves film. I like digital, but converting him has been a tough one! He prefers to shoot on film and then scan what he likes.

Thanks so much for the kind words,

xoxo,
nina