One of my personal favorite sex toys of all time is my stainless steel njoy pure plug, and in my recent Stay Naked Sunday entry here, I wrote about a steamy session of lovemaking in which my favorite butt plug made a prominent appearance. It’s been a while since I’ve written about my own sex life with any kind of descriptive detail, and I have my own reasons for why that is, but that particular afternoon had a certain level of intimate debauchery which for one reason or another I was in the mood to share with those who choose to spend some time with me here in geishaland.

A lovely friend of mine wrote me an email about that entry, particularly with some questions about the njoy pure plug, specifically how this product is and can be used during intercourse. When I went back and re-read my original review and write up about the pure plug, I realized that I hadn’t adequately covered the subject she’d asked me about. So with her permission, I’d like to share part of her email and then append my original review with some new things because I think these are questions which others may have.

I loved your Stay Naked Sunday piece so much, I had to ask you a question: what is it like fucking with your steel butt plug in? Because of your delicious review, I treated my ass to one, however, I’ve been a little wary of having my husband put his cock in my pussy with the plug in my butt! Is there anything I should worry about? Can the plug injure my man in any way?

These are all really great questions because I think there may be some concern about being filled in ‘both holes’ so to speak if one isn’t experienced in the areas of double penetration, and also given that the njoy pure plug is made of solid stainless steel, any battle between it and the human body is going to be won by the plug!

First, let me express my own personal mantra for good, healthy sexuality: always go slow when you’re exploring something new, and don’t be afraid to stop if something doesn’t feel right to you or your partner. Our bodies are wonderful temples, and sharing your body with another is how we transcend all of our intangible emotions, desires and fantasies into physical expression. Sex is truly the ultimate synergy of mind and body, and sharing our sexuality with another is our greatest and most sacred gift. This very simple idea is what I like to believe is the foundation for a safe, healthy and satisfying sex life.

To answer these questions, let’s first quickly explore what the pure plug is all about. The njoy pure plug is an anal sex toy made of solid stainless steel (read the review here), and it can be used by either men or women. Since my perspective is female, I’m not in a position to explore how it impacts a man’s experience, but I’ll do my best to fill in the blanks from a woman’s point of view. If you haven’t been indoctrinated into the world of anal pleasure but are curious, then I’d encourage you to read my entry here on that very subject, and then come back to this one. So, now to the questions.

What it is like fucking with your steel butt plug in?

In a word: delightful! The pure plug has a wonderful teardrop shape which provides those amazing sensations of being filled anally. The real pleasure for me is in the whole process of insertion where you enjoy and achieve that mind altering stretch as the plug slips past your sphincter muscles and settles into place. The larger the plug, the greater that sensation, and the larger the plug, the heavier it is which also adds to the experience. I personally enjoy the 1 ½ inch diameter plug the best and find that size to be the perfect fit for me. njoy does make four sizes, including a 2 inch diameter plug, but I found that to be a bit much for my tastes, but each person has their own preference. If you’ve never really done much anal play, I would suggest starting smaller and working your way up.

Being penetrated vaginally with the plug in place opens up an entirely new level of different erotic sensations. For me it often leads to indulging my own double penetration fantasies during sex, and because I experience such a shift in consciousness from wearing the plug, those fantasies take on an incredibly realistic presence in my mind. I also find that my vagina feels a bit tighter while being fucked with the plug in, and you naughty girls who do your Kegels regularly can really give your man some out of this world pleasure by squeezing yourself around him! That combined sensation of feeling tighter also gives an additional sensation of your man’s cock feeling thicker or having more girth when inside you, which of course is always a wonderful thing!

I’ve been a little wary of having my husband put his cock in my pussy with the plug in my butt! Is there anything I should worry about? Can the plug injure my man in any way?

This is such a great question, and the best answer I can give goes back to my original point: start slow and see what feels good for the both of you, but there are a few things to be aware of first. Because the pure plug fits the body so well, it rests very comfortably while being worn. However, position is everything. The only exposed part of the plug is the handle which could potentially injure your guy’s balls if he slammed into it the wrong way, so my suggestion is to work out your positions so that doesn’t happen. There’s little danger of damaging the tissue which separates the rectum from the lower vaginal wall, but again, depending on what size plug you’re wearing, and how large your man’s cock is, you could experience some discomfort, so again, start slow and make sure you’re both comfortable. There’s also little to no chance of pushing the plug in further than it’s supposed to go because of the design of the product.

One of the real benefits I’ve found to fucking while wearing my plug is that if you get the position correct, and because of the additional tightness, there’s great potential of your guy being able to hit your g-spot – but like anything else, practice makes perfect! My husband has also expressed to me that he’s definitely aware of the plug being there when he’s fucking me this way, and I’m more than aware of those delicious sensations too!

It truly made me very happy to be able to share this and answer these questions. I only hope that I’ve covered everything that needed to be covered and that I’ve given good answers. With anything new, I’ll say again, always start slow and go with what feels good. The only rules are the ones you make for yourselves!