Comments on: Reader Emails: More about the njoy pure plug http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/ the personal journal of nina aoki Sat, 22 Nov 2008 04:01:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-7730 nina aoki Mon, 16 Jun 2008 22:02:14 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-7730 Hi anna! Thanks so much for your kind words and for sharing this with me. I'm happy that my reviews have been helpful, and I'd agree that the pure wand is a fabulous tool! :razz: <i>i am now very interested in the njoy butt plugs, but am not that experienced with anal play yet, so i might lack a bit of creativity when i try to imagine positions. i have yet to be able to orgasm while having partner sex, so i am trying out all different kinds of things.</i> The best thing I can suggest to you with respect to Anal Play is to go slow and go at your own pace and only do what you're comfortable with and allow yourself the time to get familiar with those feelings and sensations (which can be incredibly powerful) I have an entry <a href="http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/13/exploring-anal-sex-and-anal-play/" rel="nofollow">here</a> which might help. I'm assuming by your second remark that you're not having orgasms from intercourse -- which is very common with us. A lot of women don't have orgasms just from penetration, but there's ways to change that! Position is <i>very</i> important, and I've found personally, any variation of me being on top works the best. Or, something like the lotus position <a href="http://lazygeisha.com/2008/05/13/the-sacred-lotus-position/" rel="nofollow">here.</a> These positions create more stimulation on the legs of your clitoris <a href="http://lazygeisha.com/2007/03/29/understanding-the-clitoris/" rel="nofollow">here</a>, or allow you or your partner to stimulate your clit with a finger while you're being penetrated. Tho, I've found that being on top allows me to control my own pace and rhythm which is what it takes for me to reach orgasm. <i>you wrote that with the butt plug in place, the possibility to hit the g-spot is increased. now i am wondering what position you recommend. i imagine laying on the back, but won’t that plug’s handle bother me when i lay ON it?</i> Not necessarily, but position is everything. The way the pure plug is designed, the handle isn't overly intrusive and it doesn't "stick out" to the point where you'd notice it. I would suggest either a pillow or a liberator wedge under your ass to lift you up a bit, which will help your partner hit your g-spot, and will make you a bit more comfortable with your plug inserted. The big thing with the pure plug is that it just fits so comfortably that all you really notice is that delightful feeling of being filled. Tho always remember -- 90% of your orgasm is psychological. Allowing your mind to fully let go and losing yourself in the moment is the surest way to get off during lovemaking! Good luck! nina Hi anna!

Thanks so much for your kind words and for sharing this with me. I’m happy that my reviews have been helpful, and I’d agree that the pure wand is a fabulous tool! :razz:

i am now very interested in the njoy butt plugs, but am not that experienced with anal play yet, so i might lack a bit of creativity when i try to imagine positions. i have yet to be able to orgasm while having partner sex, so i am trying out all different kinds of things.

The best thing I can suggest to you with respect to Anal Play is to go slow and go at your own pace and only do what you’re comfortable with and allow yourself the time to get familiar with those feelings and sensations (which can be incredibly powerful) I have an entry here which might help.

I’m assuming by your second remark that you’re not having orgasms from intercourse — which is very common with us. A lot of women don’t have orgasms just from penetration, but there’s ways to change that! Position is very important, and I’ve found personally, any variation of me being on top works the best. Or, something like the lotus position here. These positions create more stimulation on the legs of your clitoris here, or allow you or your partner to stimulate your clit with a finger while you’re being penetrated. Tho, I’ve found that being on top allows me to control my own pace and rhythm which is what it takes for me to reach orgasm.

you wrote that with the butt plug in place, the possibility to hit the g-spot is increased. now i am wondering what position you recommend. i imagine laying on the back, but won’t that plug’s handle bother me when i lay ON it?

Not necessarily, but position is everything. The way the pure plug is designed, the handle isn’t overly intrusive and it doesn’t “stick out” to the point where you’d notice it. I would suggest either a pillow or a liberator wedge under your ass to lift you up a bit, which will help your partner hit your g-spot, and will make you a bit more comfortable with your plug inserted.

The big thing with the pure plug is that it just fits so comfortably that all you really notice is that delightful feeling of being filled.

Tho always remember — 90% of your orgasm is psychological. Allowing your mind to fully let go and losing yourself in the moment is the surest way to get off during lovemaking!

Good luck!

nina

]]> By: anna http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-7725 anna Mon, 16 Jun 2008 20:10:50 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-7725 hi nina, i also am one of the many readers who love reading your reviews. i bought the njoy purewand based on your review. what a beautiful tool! i am now very interested in the njoy butt plugs, but am not that experienced with anal play yet, so i might lack a bit of creativity when i try to imagine positions. i have yet to be able to orgasm while having partner sex, so i am trying out all different kinds of things. you wrote that with the butt plug in place, the possibility to hit the g-spot is increased. now i am wondering what position you recommend. i imagine laying on the back, but won't that plug's handle bother me when i lay ON it? i would love to get a hint... thanks so much for all your work! anna hi nina,

i also am one of the many readers who love reading your reviews. i bought the njoy purewand based on your review. what a beautiful tool!

i am now very interested in the njoy butt plugs, but am not that experienced with anal play yet, so i might lack a bit of creativity when i try to imagine positions. i have yet to be able to orgasm while having partner sex, so i am trying out all different kinds of things.

you wrote that with the butt plug in place, the possibility to hit the g-spot is increased. now i am wondering what position you recommend. i imagine laying on the back, but won’t that plug’s handle bother me when i lay ON it?

i would love to get a hint…

thanks so much for all your work!

anna

]]> By: A Real Guide to Anal Sex and Anal Play | lazy geisha http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-6019 A Real Guide to Anal Sex and Anal Play | lazy geisha Tue, 08 Apr 2008 08:36:45 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-6019 [...] reviewing the njoy line of sex toys, especially after reviewing the njoy Pure Plugs, I started receiving emails from people who had either read my reviews or my blog asking me about anal sex, and I realized at [...] [...] reviewing the njoy line of sex toys, especially after reviewing the njoy Pure Plugs, I started receiving emails from people who had either read my reviews or my blog asking me about anal sex, and I realized at [...]

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4398 nina aoki Mon, 14 Jan 2008 01:43:04 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4398 ell, Thanks for sharing that with me! You're quite right! A lot of guys get into having a little prostrate stimulation during sex. The Pure Plug is most certainly a unisex toy! xoxo, nina ell,

Thanks for sharing that with me! You’re quite right! A lot of guys get into having a little prostrate stimulation during sex. The Pure Plug is most certainly a unisex toy!

xoxo,
nina

]]> By: ell http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4395 ell Sun, 06 Jan 2008 13:18:14 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4395 We've found that there's a good deal of fun to be had all round if he wears one at the same time. [:)] We’ve found that there’s a good deal of fun to be had all round if he wears one at the same time. [:)]

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4373 nina aoki Wed, 02 Jan 2008 23:40:09 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4373 IFN, Thanks for the kind words and welcome to <i>geishaland!</i> Yes, I did get your email, and I will respond as soon as possible. Thanks! xoxo, nina IFN,

Thanks for the kind words and welcome to geishaland!

Yes, I did get your email, and I will respond as soon as possible.

Thanks!

xoxo,
nina

]]> By: IFN http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4371 IFN Wed, 02 Jan 2008 19:47:45 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4371 Hi, Nina. Just discovered your wonderful blog and really enjoyed your review of the njoy plug, so much so that I just emailed you about it. Really want to get one (or two) for my wife. Looking forward to checking out the rest of the site - thanks! IFN Hi, Nina. Just discovered your wonderful blog and really enjoyed your review of the njoy plug, so much so that I just emailed you about it. Really want to get one (or two) for my wife.

Looking forward to checking out the rest of the site - thanks!

IFN

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4329 nina aoki Sat, 22 Dec 2007 07:17:19 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4329 Tasha, Thank you sweetheart! I'm so happy that I was able to offer some insight into this wonderful toy! You'll have to let me know how your experimenting works out! haha! :kissing: xoxo, nina Tasha,

Thank you sweetheart! I’m so happy that I was able to offer some insight into this wonderful toy! You’ll have to let me know how your experimenting works out! haha!

:kissing:

xoxo,
nina

]]> By: Tasha http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4326 Tasha Thu, 20 Dec 2007 22:06:55 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4326 Incredibly done- you are such a great sex educator. i can't wait to do some experimenting! xoxo! love, tasha Incredibly done- you are such a great sex educator. i can’t wait to do some experimenting!
xoxo!

love,
tasha

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4323 nina aoki Thu, 20 Dec 2007 04:19:33 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4323 saratoga, Thanks so much. Yes, I would completely agree with what you've shared here with me. Shared anal play can be an immensely intimate experience between lovers, and it can bring a whole new level of connection. As I wrote some time ago <a href="http://lazygeisha.com/2007/02/13/exploring-anal-sex-and-anal-play/" rel="nofollow">here</a> when I first discussed anal play in a serious manner, there are a lot of obstacles people face when they first approach this type of play, but again, if done slow and with respect, it can open up many new avenues of pleasure! Thanks so much hon! xoxo, nina saratoga,

Thanks so much. Yes, I would completely agree with what you’ve shared here with me. Shared anal play can be an immensely intimate experience between lovers, and it can bring a whole new level of connection. As I wrote some time ago here when I first discussed anal play in a serious manner, there are a lot of obstacles people face when they first approach this type of play, but again, if done slow and with respect, it can open up many new avenues of pleasure!

Thanks so much hon!

xoxo,
nina

]]> By: saratoga http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4321 saratoga Wed, 19 Dec 2007 17:16:47 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/2007/12/19/reader-emails-more-about-the-njoy-pure-plug/#comment-4321 Nina- Amen to your comments on anal penetration with a butt plug. It's such a wonderful, complex activity. Full of physical sensations, feelings, and, with a beloved partner, a whole new level of connection. N'est pas? xoxox -saratoga Nina-

Amen to your comments on anal penetration with a butt plug.

It’s such a wonderful, complex activity. Full of physical sensations, feelings, and, with a beloved partner, a whole new level of connection.

N’est pas?

xoxox
-saratoga

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