Comments on: My ticking biological clock http://lazygeisha.com/2008/05/03/my-ticking-biological-clock/ the personal journal of nina aoki Tue, 07 Oct 2008 08:05:37 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2008/05/03/my-ticking-biological-clock/#comment-6921 nina aoki Sun, 11 May 2008 16:50:08 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=749#comment-6921 Tasha, Wow! What lovely things you've shared with me! Thank you! That sounds truly beautiful! You are so right about how that feels psychologically for us when we ditch the contraception and sex is a complete roll of the dice (because you just don't know what will happen!) -- but it feels amazing and so natural. You've said it exactly right -- "how we were meant to" So much has changed from when I had my son to where things are now. I didn't know about baby yoga, or baby-momma yoga, and I wish I had too. I also did a lot of baby wearing and co-sleeping as well as breast feeding. All of that was such an amazing experience. Tho there are days when I wish that he had stayed an infant! lol! But also -- how that so invades every aspect of our consciousness -- is so right. I loved all of those feelings you've also shared with me. I was never quite as happy as I was when I was pregnant with my son. You're right too -- springtime does make us horny! Tho I think Jeff and I are done making babies (but we can keep trying! haha!) -- want to hear something funny? I actually picked up a copy of American Baby at the news stand the other day! I know, what a dope huh? lmao! Happy fucking and happy mother's day to you sweetheart! Mwah! nina Tasha,

Wow! What lovely things you’ve shared with me! Thank you! That sounds truly beautiful!

You are so right about how that feels psychologically for us when we ditch the contraception and sex is a complete roll of the dice (because you just don’t know what will happen!) — but it feels amazing and so natural. You’ve said it exactly right — “how we were meant to”

So much has changed from when I had my son to where things are now. I didn’t know about baby yoga, or baby-momma yoga, and I wish I had too. I also did a lot of baby wearing and co-sleeping as well as breast feeding. All of that was such an amazing experience. Tho there are days when I wish that he had stayed an infant! lol!

But also — how that so invades every aspect of our consciousness — is so right. I loved all of those feelings you’ve also shared with me. I was never quite as happy as I was when I was pregnant with my son.

You’re right too — springtime does make us horny! Tho I think Jeff and I are done making babies (but we can keep trying! haha!) — want to hear something funny? I actually picked up a copy of American Baby at the news stand the other day! I know, what a dope huh? lmao!

Happy fucking and happy mother’s day to you sweetheart!

Mwah!

nina

]]> By: Stay Naked Sunday: Happy Mother’s Day! | lazy geisha http://lazygeisha.com/2008/05/03/my-ticking-biological-clock/#comment-6920 Stay Naked Sunday: Happy Mother’s Day! | lazy geisha Sun, 11 May 2008 14:33:27 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=749#comment-6920 [...] mean, come on…   I know I wrote here that I loved being pregnant – and I did too.  But eighteen??  Eighteen?  That’s your own [...] [...] mean, come on…   I know I wrote here that I loved being pregnant – and I did too.  But eighteen??  Eighteen?  That’s your own [...]

]]> By: Tasha http://lazygeisha.com/2008/05/03/my-ticking-biological-clock/#comment-6908 Tasha Fri, 09 May 2008 20:19:19 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=749#comment-6908 Nina, Considering where I am at in my life, as a mother now for two years, I felt this post deep in my heart. Sex wasn't the same anymore when my love and I ditched all contraception and started fucking like we were meant to, the way nature intended. We fucked for days, and our lives pretty much revolved around pleasure. There was nothing else we wanted to do in the Spring of 05. I was on a quest learning as much about natural health as possible. I was only 21, almost 22. We had been together nearly 4 years. Both of our bodies were urging us in the direction of turning our relationship into a triad. Things like baby-wearing, breast-feeding, co-sleeping, pre-natal and baby-mommma yoga kept invading my consciousness. I was eating healthier than I'd ever done before. And it was no surprise when all the shifts and changes happened. And when I should have gotten a period, I got a different sort of greeting. And on our 4th anniversary, I took the pee-test. I awoke my love with "happy anniversary baby. I'm pregnant." I was elated pregnant. I loved it all. To be two people, two souls in one was unlike anything I'd ever known before. I was literally changed in every way instantly. I didn't mind getting huge and bloated. My hair had been long, down to my ass since I was 12, and I suddenly had an urge to have it all chopped off and donated. Every little thing about pregnancy made me joyous. Tristan is his name, and I was obsessed. When he was born, and I became flooded with those LOVE hormones, I wanted 10 more babies. The pain of labor is nothing when the reward is so grand. We literally had a party in the hospital when Tristan was born. You may be familiar with Jupiter Medical Center? I had four people in the room with me. My mother and sister in law hit on the handsome male doctor. It is no lie when they say those hormones are more powerful than opiate drugs. I never felt love and high like that. To me, sex is for creation. Whichever ways work for you. But the act doesn't end when we "get off"- it goes so much farther. I don't know if I will ever get pregnant again, Tristan is everything, and a most demanding creature. But if I were to, I'd accept and cherish it wholly. We also want to adopt a little girl. because Tristan has been 100% perfect, and seriously angelic in every way, we feel so blessed and would love to extend that to someone who has not been dealt such good circumstances from the start. For me, pleasure and sex extend far beyond the now. It can go so far, and motherhood has really been the most special, sacred and perfect path for me. Springtime makes us very horny; and really gets my husband's clock ticking away. seeing our friends' newborns really put a mischievious glint in his eyes. every single may. beltane season. Happy fucking, my sweet Nina! -tasha Nina,
Considering where I am at in my life, as a mother now for two years, I felt this post deep in my heart. Sex wasn’t the same anymore when my love and I ditched all contraception and started fucking like we were meant to, the way nature intended. We fucked for days, and our lives pretty much revolved around pleasure. There was nothing else we wanted to do in the Spring of 05. I was on a quest learning as much about natural health as possible. I was only 21, almost 22. We had been together nearly 4 years. Both of our bodies were urging us in the direction of turning our relationship into a triad. Things like baby-wearing, breast-feeding, co-sleeping, pre-natal and baby-mommma yoga kept invading my consciousness. I was eating healthier than I’d ever done before. And it was no surprise when all the shifts and changes happened. And when I should have gotten a period, I got a different sort of greeting. And on our 4th anniversary, I took the pee-test. I awoke my love with “happy anniversary baby. I’m pregnant.”
I was elated pregnant. I loved it all. To be two people, two souls in one was unlike anything I’d ever known before. I was literally changed in every way instantly. I didn’t mind getting huge and bloated. My hair had been long, down to my ass since I was 12, and I suddenly had an urge to have it all chopped off and donated. Every little thing about pregnancy made me joyous. Tristan is his name, and I was obsessed. When he was born, and I became flooded with those LOVE hormones, I wanted 10 more babies. The pain of labor is nothing when the reward is so grand. We literally had a party in the hospital when Tristan was born. You may be familiar with Jupiter Medical Center? I had four people in the room with me. My mother and sister in law hit on the handsome male doctor. It is no lie when they say those hormones are more powerful than opiate drugs. I never felt love and high like that. To me, sex is for creation. Whichever ways work for you. But the act doesn’t end when we “get off”- it goes so much farther. I don’t know if I will ever get pregnant again, Tristan is everything, and a most demanding creature. But if I were to, I’d accept and cherish it wholly. We also want to adopt a little girl. because Tristan has been 100% perfect, and seriously angelic in every way, we feel so blessed and would love to extend that to someone who has not been dealt such good circumstances from the start. For me, pleasure and sex extend far beyond the now. It can go so far, and motherhood has really been the most special, sacred and perfect path for me.
Springtime makes us very horny; and really gets my husband’s clock ticking away. seeing our friends’ newborns really put a mischievious glint in his eyes. every single may. beltane season.
Happy fucking, my sweet Nina!
-tasha

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2008/05/03/my-ticking-biological-clock/#comment-6806 nina aoki Sun, 04 May 2008 15:10:55 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=749#comment-6806 Leigh, How wonderful! Well -- I read an article not too long ago which talked about how when we see a newborn, it releases all kinds of brain chemicals which make us feel all warm and fuzzy inside. We're still very much slaves to our animal instincts you know. I loved the whole experience of becoming a mother. Tho, as it says here in <i>geishaland</i> on the front page: <i><b>Anzuru yori umu ga yasashi</b></i> An old Japanese proverb which says: <em> Giving birth to a baby is easier than worrying about it.</em> nina Leigh,

How wonderful!

Well — I read an article not too long ago which talked about how when we see a newborn, it releases all kinds of brain chemicals which make us feel all warm and fuzzy inside. We’re still very much slaves to our animal instincts you know.

I loved the whole experience of becoming a mother. Tho, as it says here in geishaland on the front page:

Anzuru yori umu ga yasashi

An old Japanese proverb which says:

Giving birth to a baby is easier than worrying about it.

nina

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2008/05/03/my-ticking-biological-clock/#comment-6805 nina aoki Sun, 04 May 2008 15:07:24 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=749#comment-6805 Caitlain, :lol: Yeah, fun for you! haha! I would <b>love</b> to have a little girl! But I think there's a reason I was given a son! I have a hard enough time as it is letting go and letting my son grow up -- I couldn't imagine how I'd handle a daughter. Tho what's funny is Lenora and I had this same conversation, and I suppose I'd figure it out. But I'd be a wreck! We've actually talked about adopting a little girl. So, you never know what the future holds do you? ;) nina Caitlain,

:lol: Yeah, fun for you! haha!

I would love to have a little girl! But I think there’s a reason I was given a son! I have a hard enough time as it is letting go and letting my son grow up — I couldn’t imagine how I’d handle a daughter. Tho what’s funny is Lenora and I had this same conversation, and I suppose I’d figure it out. But I’d be a wreck!

We’ve actually talked about adopting a little girl. So, you never know what the future holds do you? ;)

nina

]]> By: Leigh http://lazygeisha.com/2008/05/03/my-ticking-biological-clock/#comment-6804 Leigh Sun, 04 May 2008 03:24:29 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=749#comment-6804 I have 2 wonderful children and am perfectly content...then I see a newborn and think of the bond I had (still have) with my own children. The pregnancy AND delivery, breastfeeding, all of the firsts (and seconds and thirds...)are large part of why I exist. Nina, I do the same thing - occasionally think what if - but, like you, I know I have been blessed with two beautiful children and will always be a mom. Although you are never quite ready (those tiny things demand much more than I ever expected) it is excellent to be prepared - I was able to spend a few years with each of mine at home and those are years NEVER regret! I have 2 wonderful children and am perfectly content…then I see a newborn and think of the bond I had (still have) with my own children. The pregnancy AND delivery, breastfeeding, all of the firsts (and seconds and thirds…)are large part of why I exist. Nina, I do the same thing - occasionally think what if - but, like you, I know I have been blessed with two beautiful children and will always be a mom. Although you are never quite ready (those tiny things demand much more than I ever expected) it is excellent to be prepared - I was able to spend a few years with each of mine at home and those are years NEVER regret!

]]> By: Caitlain http://lazygeisha.com/2008/05/03/my-ticking-biological-clock/#comment-6803 Caitlain Sun, 04 May 2008 00:18:47 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=749#comment-6803 I would <b>really</b> love to see you with a daughter, Nina. That would be fun to watch, especially as she grew into adolescence. I would really love to see you with a daughter, Nina. That would be fun to watch, especially as she grew into adolescence.

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2008/05/03/my-ticking-biological-clock/#comment-6795 nina aoki Sat, 03 May 2008 20:43:18 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=749#comment-6795 Pegxx, Thank you sweetheart! Well -- it's probably best to wait until you're ready. There are a lot of unwanted children in the world, so yes, you should wait until your life circumstances allow you to give everything you can to being a mother. I go thru this <strong>at least</strong> once a year -- actually usually around this time of year too! :lol: I start going thru that whole "I wanna make a baby" thing... It'll pass (I think!) nina Pegxx,

Thank you sweetheart! Well — it’s probably best to wait until you’re ready. There are a lot of unwanted children in the world, so yes, you should wait until your life circumstances allow you to give everything you can to being a mother.

I go thru this at least once a year — actually usually around this time of year too! :lol:

I start going thru that whole “I wanna make a baby” thing…

It’ll pass (I think!)

nina

]]> By: Pegxx http://lazygeisha.com/2008/05/03/my-ticking-biological-clock/#comment-6793 Pegxx Sat, 03 May 2008 17:25:22 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=749#comment-6793 What a truly beautiful blog, I can't wait to become a mother, but will only do so when I feel I have enough to give; financially, emotionally etc... Pegxx What a truly beautiful blog, I can’t wait to become a mother, but will only do so when I feel I have enough to give; financially, emotionally etc…

Pegxx

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