One of the things I always wrestle with when I write about my own sexuality is how much of my partners’ own sexual quirks do I allow into that? It isn’t as if my sex life exists in a vacuum. I have partners – and to some degree I always worry that perhaps I’m sharing too much about them, even tho these are my experiences and shared from my perspective, there are things about both my husband and my girlfriend which I feel should remain private. I have their permission to write and share these things, but it’s still something I struggle to define and come to terms with – how much of them do I share here?

Sometimes I can keep these things clearly defined and safe – or safe enough for me; but its still a bit of a balancing act. With everything that’s gone on with me these last few weeks my relationship with my husband has been somewhat secondary in terms of what I’ve been writing about – and in a lot of ways that bothers me and I feel as tho I need to fill in some empty spaces there. I’m not just interested in my relationships with other women, tho those have been primarily what I’ve been writing about lately – but my relationship with him is what makes all of that possible. Without him, there would be nothing else. All things flow from that.

I have something new in my Sanctuary about how he and I reconnected. Something which happened last night. You can read the entry titled slipknot here. Normal password rules apply.  Access questions are answered here.

Enjoy your Tuesday