Summer is here and that means I’m more or less on my summer schedule in terms of how I order my day and how I get things done.  My son is out of school so that means I need to spend more of my day on “mom” time, and I have to balance my workday a little differently to fit everything together. There’s never enough hours in the day tho.

There are however some geishaland updates I have today, so let me do that then.

Things are good and have settled into a nice place with everyone in my life.  My crisis seems to have passed and worked itself out and I find myself feeling much more in control of my emotions.  Perhaps it was hormones, perhaps it was the universe showing me a glimpse of something and a lesson I needed to learn, and perhaps it was still something else.  Either way I feel better and that’s what counts.  I’ve even talked to Lisa about getting me a daycollar!  I really like this one here.

To expand a little bit on what I wrote about here in terms of what I share and how I share it – I got an email from someone who reads here after I posted Amethyst, and he asked me when/if I was going to share the rest of what went on that night, and I just feel as tho I need to explain some things so some other things in geishaland will make sense; I don’t write about every time I’m with someone, or reveal every single intimate detail of what goes on between me and my lovers in those relationships, especially in terms of my sexuality or sexual activities with them.

But if I decide to go make $2000 for a two hour Bukakke session at a bachelor party… I will write about it!  :lol:

(tho I think its worth more…)

Much of what I do in my life, especially in my sex life… I never write about, and never would.  I only share the things which strike me as significant to what I’m feeling or going thru at the moment, so in the case of Amethyst, I wrote about what happened prior to our going out dancing for the night.  I view all of that part of my life as sacred and the few things I do share are more for me to process and share with other people whom I feel would enjoy reading about them and understand them.  I view my Sanctuary as my sacred space, which is why its now a private place.  Tho I did decide to open up comments on some of the entries only because it’s difficult for me to keep up with all the emails I receive after I post something.  Comments here are just easier and they make more sense in terms of building a community.

Not that I don’t appreciate emails and I still encourage people to write me with their thoughts or questions – but if something can be better said in comments, that’s much more preferred for me.  But, I also understand, given that the majority of my readers here are in fact women, that sometimes there’s a shyness associated with commenting on someone’s blog, especially when its something so intimate.  I would encourage anyone who wishes to share their thoughts with me to always feel comfortable doing that here.

I’ve been a bit lazy again with my toy reviews, even tho I’ve tried them all out (or at least the ones which have arrived.  I have one new item on the way)

Here’s the list:

• Two glass dildos by Phallix

• A Naughtinano by OhMiBod

• A set of LELO Luna Balls from Black Label

• A Hitachi Wand and Gee Whiz attachment on its way from Babeland

I’m going to try and knock all of these out by next week – so look for those soon.

I’ve also been somewhat sidetracked and preoccupied with thinking about the issue of Cyber-Bullies lately too, because I’ve experienced a bit of this in the last couple of days.  I’ve mentioned a forum I joined not too long ago, and I received a rather rude and inappropriate PM from one of the moderators of that forum.  I believe I’ve handled it as best as possible, but I’m always curious as to what happens to people when they come out into cyberia and where their manners disappear to?  Why on earth would this woman send me such a confrontational private message?  Is she perhaps threatened by a strong minded articulate woman who isn’t afraid to speak her mind and share her opinions?  Is this a simple case of “big fish in a little pond” scenario?  Or is it something else?

I seriously considered just leaving the forum because why would anyone want to be someplace where they aren’t welcome?  But, I may wait and see what happens.  She has yet to respond to my reply to her, so maybe she’s reevaluating her own behavior.  One can only hope.

And something else…

My dear sweetest Alexa has written and published a smoldering piece of erotic fiction here.

Tho, I’ll say no more about “Anni” …   :P

Enjoy your Thursday!