Comments on: Getting Turned On: My Compatibility Needs, Wants and Desires http://lazygeisha.com/2008/08/06/getting-turned-on-my-compatibility-needs-wants-and-desires/ the personal journal of nina aoki Fri, 21 Nov 2008 02:52:10 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2008/08/06/getting-turned-on-my-compatibility-needs-wants-and-desires/#comment-8324 nina aoki Sat, 09 Aug 2008 21:25:28 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=1518#comment-8324 Hello Steffy! Oh thank you sweetheart! You made a sad girl smile today! You're such a wonderful friend and I thank you for such kind words. I hope your days are bright and filled with love m'dearest! :pretty: xoxo, nina Hello Steffy!

Oh thank you sweetheart! You made a sad girl smile today! You’re such a wonderful friend and I thank you for such kind words.

I hope your days are bright and filled with love m’dearest! :pretty:

xoxo,
nina

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2008/08/06/getting-turned-on-my-compatibility-needs-wants-and-desires/#comment-8323 nina aoki Sat, 09 Aug 2008 21:24:19 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=1518#comment-8323 v|c -- Well, people are just people. Not everyone is the same, but we still have to take the risk, kwim? I accept that the world is filled with imperfection, as I am an imperfect creature too. Yes, I do see sex and love as completely connected and necessary for life, and ecstasy. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts with me! Ah yes, the Love Hotel! Fabulous places to go to in Japan! :giggle: ~ nina v|c –

Well, people are just people. Not everyone is the same, but we still have to take the risk, kwim? I accept that the world is filled with imperfection, as I am an imperfect creature too.

Yes, I do see sex and love as completely connected and necessary for life, and ecstasy.

Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts with me!

Ah yes, the Love Hotel! Fabulous places to go to in Japan! :giggle:

~ nina

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2008/08/06/getting-turned-on-my-compatibility-needs-wants-and-desires/#comment-8322 nina aoki Sat, 09 Aug 2008 21:21:16 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=1518#comment-8322 Karen, Thanks KS -- it's been rough, but you know me. Nothing getting all bendy and a margarita (or four) can't fix! :crazy: mwah! xoxo, nina Karen,

Thanks KS — it’s been rough, but you know me.

Nothing getting all bendy and a margarita (or four) can’t fix! :crazy:

mwah!

xoxo,
nina

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2008/08/06/getting-turned-on-my-compatibility-needs-wants-and-desires/#comment-8321 nina aoki Sat, 09 Aug 2008 21:20:06 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=1518#comment-8321 TFP, Thank you -- you are most kind! ~ nina TFP,

Thank you — you are most kind!

~ nina

]]> By: Steffy http://lazygeisha.com/2008/08/06/getting-turned-on-my-compatibility-needs-wants-and-desires/#comment-8314 Steffy Fri, 08 Aug 2008 23:00:00 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=1518#comment-8314 Thank you Nina for this wonderful insight! You so beautifully speak of so many important things! And so very crystal clear too! I love love love learning little fun tid bits of things that speak from your awesome soul! Have a lovely day Sweet Nina! Love, Steffy Thank you Nina for this wonderful insight!
You so beautifully speak of so many important things!
And so very crystal clear too!
I love love love learning little fun tid bits of things that speak from your awesome soul!
Have a lovely day Sweet Nina!
Love,
Steffy

]]> By: v|c http://lazygeisha.com/2008/08/06/getting-turned-on-my-compatibility-needs-wants-and-desires/#comment-8311 v|c Fri, 08 Aug 2008 07:36:16 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=1518#comment-8311 As a fellow 'giver', I completely understand your frustration with the self-centered, emotionally immature/devoid people out there. Love and sex go hand in hand, but so many people try their hardest to separate them because it seems 'normal' to go for quick-roots. It's like our generation doesn't have the attention-span to pay any attention to other people. When you are involved with someone like this, when have you given too much? Are we meant to expect reciprocity or does that undermine selfless giving? (just found your awesome blog after searching for japanese love hotels in TOKYO!!!) As a fellow ‘giver’, I completely understand your frustration with the self-centered, emotionally immature/devoid people out there. Love and sex go hand in hand, but so many people try their hardest to separate them because it seems ‘normal’ to go for quick-roots. It’s like our generation doesn’t have the attention-span to pay any attention to other people.
When you are involved with someone like this, when have you given too much? Are we meant to expect reciprocity or does that undermine selfless giving?
(just found your awesome blog after searching for japanese love hotels in TOKYO!!!)

]]> By: KarenS http://lazygeisha.com/2008/08/06/getting-turned-on-my-compatibility-needs-wants-and-desires/#comment-8308 KarenS Thu, 07 Aug 2008 21:18:06 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=1518#comment-8308 You're adorable Nina! I'm sorry you're going through a hard time right now. Maybe you'll be in a better mood tonight. See ya at yoga babe! ;) K. You’re adorable Nina! I’m sorry you’re going through a hard time right now. Maybe you’ll be in a better mood tonight. See ya at yoga babe! ;)

K.

]]> By: TFP http://lazygeisha.com/2008/08/06/getting-turned-on-my-compatibility-needs-wants-and-desires/#comment-8307 TFP Thu, 07 Aug 2008 10:01:48 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=1518#comment-8307 nina, Enjoyable expressions, thank you. -TFP nina,

Enjoyable expressions, thank you.

-TFP

]]> By: nina aoki http://lazygeisha.com/2008/08/06/getting-turned-on-my-compatibility-needs-wants-and-desires/#comment-8302 nina aoki Thu, 07 Aug 2008 02:06:59 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=1518#comment-8302 Hi S! Thanks! I'm happy that I brought a smile to your face today! :D Yes, I <b>am</b> very lucky to have the two of them in my life -- and I think it's cool that you shared some of the things and interests I wrote about today too! Have a great night hon! :P nina Hi S!

Thanks! I’m happy that I brought a smile to your face today! :D

Yes, I am very lucky to have the two of them in my life — and I think it’s cool that you shared some of the things and interests I wrote about today too!

Have a great night hon! :P

nina

]]> By: S http://lazygeisha.com/2008/08/06/getting-turned-on-my-compatibility-needs-wants-and-desires/#comment-8300 S Wed, 06 Aug 2008 23:29:06 +0000 http://lazygeisha.com/?p=1518#comment-8300 Reading this made me smile. I have many of the same interests. It is wonderful that you have the two of them in your life. Hugs. S Reading this made me smile. I have many of the same interests. It is wonderful that you have the two of them in your life. Hugs.

S

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