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Psychology of the Collar


A thought; broken like a splinter in my mind. Drawn from a single statement written about in my Sanctuary here and then further here – the idea of being collared has become something I’m finding intriguing today. This may perhaps be an unusual detour of thought and exploration for me – but I [...]

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The Moth and the Flame (intro)


The idea of sexual submission is a powerful one; an idea which I enjoy exploring and discussing – but I find that doing so publicly presents me with some complications. I have decided to write and publish something on this topic but I don’t feel comfortable placing this piece in the Lifestyle or Your [...]

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Using njoy toys in BDSM D/s Play


Last summer when I began reviewing the njoy line of sex toys, one of the topics which came up during the course of my research was the use of these toys, particularly the pure wand, in a BDSM or sexual D/s situation. At that time I had consulted with a number of friends who were [...]

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