Aesthetics in sex are important; the peripheral stimuli which enhances the encounter and adds that delightful erotic charge to the whole affair.  Sometimes maybe that includes wearing some pretty lingerie, or garters and stockings, a pair of heels… or in my case tonight… thigh high leather boots with four inch stiletto spikes!
Don’t get me wrong [...]

“How does one write about their debauchery on their birthday without really admitting that their husband set it up?”
“Freak.”
“See?  This is a real problem here…”
How indeed?  More than just about becoming nina the spank-o slut for a brief moment in time; as I’ve eluded to here and there in some subtle and not so subtle [...]

Before I let my thoughts wander a bit; I’ve really got some random shit here in geishaland. I mean, seriously. I went thumbing thru my archives and gosh, I’m really hating on my own blog right now.
Okay – enough of that for the moment.
Some thoughts which grew out of a conversation [...]